Author Archives: Rashae

I’ve been here before and honestly it’s not that bad. I think what ruffles my feathers is the wondering am I being thought about, am I missed is what I ask myself. It hurts when you get abandoned by people you thought would have your back or worse when people continue to choose others over you. You start to question yourself and those self-sabotaging questions will make you feel low, unwanted, and very unseen.

New beginnings are scary however being in the same spot as last year with no actual measurement of growth is scary as well. It makes you think of all the time you had and what you spent it on. As I am in the middle of a transition, I am shedding layers of myself that no longer represent the path I am on today. #beginagain #freshstarts #newyou #sheddinglayers

You are bigger than your societal norms

People will disappoint you but only if you hold them to a higher expectations. Recently I have been losing relationships that I thought was meant for me then God stepped in to show me that these folks are no longer meant for this new level of life I am on. I expected certain people to be here to cheer me on, I expected people to listen when I expressed my feelings, and I expected others to have more understanding for me.

Letting go of your old self and stepping into a new you is one of those moments where you never know where to start. You wonder if this is the right decision, who will judge you, and what relationships you will lose. However, the feeling of empowerment you have when you finally took the time to do the internal work, the transition become seamless.